Inner Polarity Coaching for Gay Men

Cultivate inner wholeness and connection in your lived experience as a gay man.

Whether you've grown up believing who you are is sinful/wrong or you've wrestled with body image or have had difficulty in intimacy and connection with others, I'm here to tell you that you have the power and capability within yourself to heal and sort this narrative once and for all. In doing so, you will begin to expand into the fullness of who you truly are and step into a life that is infused by your authentic light and purpose. It's time.

What is Inner Polarity?

Our Inner Polarity is rooted in the Tantric principles of Masculine & Feminine that allow us to experience life. This is not about gender stereotypes. Masculine & Feminine are divine energies, ones we are interacting with all of the time whether we are conscious of it or not.

Due to how we're typically taught in schools, families and society in general, these energies tend to be waging a war inside of us. Call it toxic masculinity, call it a domination paradigm, but regardless, this training has led to a lot of internal struggle for many people, gay men included. Our work to wholeness is rooted in untangling and unpacking the narrative so that we can begin to live in accordance to our own truth and inner guidance.

How Does It Apply?

Addressing our inner polarity has many different applications in our life. Below are a few examples based on my own experiences as a gay man.

Body Image

Intimacy

Relationships

Authenticity

God/Spirit

Health & Safety

What Does This Look Like?

a practical application of inner polarity coaching

At the end of the day, the big win in this work is about establishing healthy connection to the polarities of Masculine and Feminine within. We are often working with a lot of false narratives which reinforce an illusion of separation. Unpacking these narratives, examining them, bringing them into the light and being honest about the dialogue we are having with ourselves is crucial to stepping into true wholeness. Depending on client’s needs, the duration of our work together will vary. This can be discussed in the initial chit chat.

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An initial discussion which includes an analysis of Masculine and Feminine narratives and prior trainings in the person’s life which they are currently sorting.
Complete an Energy Grid Reading which can highlight the person’s inner wiring, whether they are predominantly more in the feminine or more in the masculine. More planets on one side of someone's grid compared to the other can illustrate this.
Consider an overarching goal as a playground of sorts where the person can start to unpack these narratives in real-world application. i.e. Healing body image and dysmorphia. Questions to consider may be:
1. What’s your relationship to your body? Remember the body is the Feminine (all bodies, all orientations) so there can be a lot to unpack here from diet culture, toxic masculine situations, and oppressing inner feminine wisdom and truth of the body with ideas from the mind (the mind is the Masculine). If this wasn’t an inner conflict, what might life look for you? How can your inner Masculine become your best coach and how can it serve your inner Feminine? How do you want to feel? Emotions are also rooted in feminine wisdom.
Beginning of each call as a check point to examine the inner dialogue between the Masculine & Feminine. What’s their relationship like today? What have been some barriers and also wins to that connection within? Celebrate every win and lean into every barrier as an opportunity for deeper exploration.